Hi Jordan. I'm being really badly bullied. Today the bully's dragged me into the boys toilets and put my head down the toilet and flushed the chain 3 times! There was a really nasty brown log in the toilet aswell and it really wasn't pleasant. I want to be friends with the bullies and just get along and play, what can I do?
Wow, I never even knew 'swirlies' (somebody was talking about them on Freewebs Chat) existed!
I'm surprised no teachers noticed.
I have always been like that. I have wanted to be friends with them instead of fighting and arguing. But sometimes bullies just don't want to change. I am now friends with about 7 people who have bullied me before.
I find that the best way to beat a bully is to tell someone. People always seem to believe that that makes it worse but trust me, it doesn't. Bullies seem to have a fear of punishment. They enjoy it when you fear them but they fear adults because and adult has the power to suspend them, exclude them, ground them, give them detention! The reason they want to make you scared of them is because if you aren't scared of them then you will just calmly walk over to a teacher, say "he/she is bullying me!" and then... "DETENTION!"
In the case that your teachers or school do not cooperate, you should talk to your parents. Even if there is no action they can take (they can take action but I'm just saying) it really feels better to talk to someone.
If you don't want to talk to an adult you know, you can phone Childline on 0800 1111 or visit a site in the Help With Bullying section.
Hope I helped,